Showing posts with label homework. Show all posts
Showing posts with label homework. Show all posts

18 March 2014

Daddy spoils his teenage daughters...

It had been a hard night...



Daddy had to make a run to the grocery store.






He came back with


MmmURGENCY CHOCOLATE

For immediate relief of: Chocolate Cravings, Lovesickness, Exam Pressure, Mild Anxiety and Extreme Hunger.
Directions for use: Tear open wrapper, break off desired dosage, and consume. Alternately massage into the affected area. Repeat dosage as required until finished. If symptoms persist, consult your local confectioner.

It should contain a warning:
Instantly and immediately addictive. Patients will repeatedly and persistently beg for another dose. May even lead to temper tantrums or extreme behavior. Use with caution.

22 October 2013

31 days... of dinner chez les Wrightlings... Chili, conversation, baby oranges and "really cute little girls" ~ according to Jonathan {day 22}


Nothing like a cold fall morning in Michigan for a drive north... especially when friends, chili and conversation are waiting at the end of the trip!




We've been so privileged to have several different missionaries a bit farther down this missions road mentor us at different stages in this journey. With the exception of one other couple, however, the Vermilyeas have been one of our go-to couples (for advice, help and sometimes just plain debriefing) the longest. 

They were the family that helped us when we first moved to Quebec for our language study... helping with doctor appointments, getting kids in school, finding housing, connecting with language partners, welcoming us to a church home, walking us through culture shock and giving us a family when ours seemed really far away.


We weren't able to connect with them at all our last furlough, so it has been a real treat to have caught up with them twice already this year. They are usually up in Quebec City - a place we love to visit whenever we have the opportunity, but not typically a place we just happen to be passing through en route to someplace else. But we didn't have to go that far this lovely October day. They just happened to be a few hours north, watching their grandkids for a few days.

So we pulled Jonathan, Elsie Mae and Mary Michelle out of school, loaded up our big green van, plugged an address into the GPS and headed north. While the big folks were visiting, our kiddos had a blast playing with their two little grand daughters... and we're learning pretty quickly that Jonathan has a clear preference for blue-eyed blondies that AREN'T his sisters!

The kids had fun... there was even a "puppy" to entertain and lots of toys, enjoyed eating chili, crackers and cheese nips, and cute little baby oranges (except the Jon-man... he'd only suck the juice out of that yummy deliciousness)!

The afternoon passed altogether too quickly (at least from our perspective) and we were soon back on the road, headed for home... wondering if the big girls had started to work on their homework or if they were playing computer games.




Just curious... what do you think they were doing when we finally walked through the door? 


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08 March 2013

Five Minute Friday ~ Home (a couple of my TCK's perspectives)

OK, so this isn't a 5MF at all, by any stretch of the imagination, in  any way, shape or form. But it is something I've been meaning to do for awhile, and so when the topic popped up today, I jumped at it.

At the beginning of this school year, my two oldest were given a writing assignment - to describe a space or a place that made them feel "at home." As a parent of TCKs - kids who often, according to the literature, have a hard time defining a place to call home - I was very interested to see what they'd write. I loved this glimpse into their hearts and minds and beings. Their daddy did, too... reading these essays just about brought him to tears, literally.

So, to use a much cliché-ed quote... without further ado here are Brendan's and Rebekah's essays (and a few recent, favorite, pictures)... 


Memory Mansion

~ by Brendan Wright
I have lived in many places throughout my 16 years, but only a few remain vivid in my mind. Most locations, especially places where I have lived for only a short time, tend to disappear, lost in my memories. However, a few homes remain clear in my mind, places associated with specific memories or formative events in my early life. Places that had an impact on my identity. Homes like my grandpa's.

Whenever my parents drive up my grandfather's black asphalt driveway, memories bombard me. Old and crinkly, a crab apple tree contorts over the driveway. In past falls, its fallen fruit fueled heated battles. At the end of the asphalt sits a garage. Recently rebuilt, this new construction found a spot in last summer's project list. Opening a white screen door, I enter the house through the garage. Aged floorboards creak as I remove my shoes. A short hallway ends near two doors. One leads to the kitchen; the other reveals a staircase down to the basement. Musty, wet and freezing cold in the winter, it has a forbidding air. Yet it too holds a museum of memories. Possessions from my father's childhood find their home in its depths. Retracing my steps, I land on the cool tiles of the kitchen. A wood table lies under the windows. The stains and whorls on its solid surface remind me of my great-grandmother. She used frequent its chairs. That's where she took her insulin shots, handed out treats, and sometimes offered a lap to sit on.

Leaving the kitchen, carpet replaces the tile. I enter the dining room, a much larger companion to the kitchen. Chairs surround the table, the site of countless Thanksgivings. On the other side of the room lies a vent. It served as the finish line for many a race, and a cozy place to sit during snowy months. I follow the wall back to the kitchen but stop halfway, arrested by a closet bereft of a door. Close scrutiny of the doorpost reveals pencil marks: dashes with names and dates. They begin low on the post and climb upwards. The timber remembers me, and other grandchildren like me. We surpass all the marks now.

A brown china cabinet stands near the table. It holds pictures - the portraits of bygone days. Leaving the dining room I step onto varnished oak. I stand in what we call the living room, but I will always think of it as the "Christmas Room." Chairs, a couch and a piano line the walls, whispering of family gatherings from before I existed. The piano sits alone. Memories of duets with Grandma play as windowed sunshine dances along the keys. I will miss that the next time I stay there.

One side of the room waits empty, occupied only during the winter by an evergreen. In the corner, a bookshelf holds more pictures. Faded ones. Books fill the gaps, some of my grandfather's favorites. Two rooms adjoin the living room. A hobby room holds old projects and computers. The other serves as a bedroom. It belongs to my grandpa and to my dad for a time. Shades obscure its windows, inviting in only a few sunbeams. Stenciled deer leap along the walls. They bound over green fields.

My grandfather's house holds many memories aside from mine. Not only does my grandfather live there, but my father grew up there. I spent several of my early years in that house. Three generations have found a home in its walls. Utilitarian at best, this house could use some refinement. However, of all the places I have ever been, it means the most to me. Given the choice to live anywhere in the world, I would choose Grandpa's house.



Heavenly Habitat

~ by Rebekah Joy Wright
Matthew 8:20 says "Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests." Every living creature has a home. A home shows who we are. If we were a place, our homes would e us. Home does not mean a small brick structure with a door, two windows and boxes of flowers. My home differs greatly from my house. Home is my great aunt and uncles'large log cabin in the middle of the woods in Harrison, Michigan.

There's the hunting ground where my father takes me deer and squirrel hunting in the fall. Acres and acres of surrounding private woods envelope me in a homelike comfort. These woods have the tallest, oldest trees I have ever seen. A canopy [sprawls] far above my head like a cathedral with giant pillars. Leaves form a stained glass window through which sunlight filters to the forest floor in all the shades of green imaginable. With small hidden glades full of purple wildflowers taking you by surprise, it seems like a world out of a fairy tale book. An old forgotten railway runs through these woods, the only telltale sign that man had ever been there.

A golf course called "Devil's Knob" tucks itself in on the border of these woods. My great aunt and her three sisters co-own the lad. Since we are relatives, we can golf for free whenever we want. My great uncle stocks the ponds on the course with many different varieties of fish; we often go fishing there. In the winter we go cross country skiing and sledding on the hills at twilight. Packs of coyotes and herds of deer abound, and they roam the woods and the golf course.

I am loved by everyone, be it my older relations or their four dogs and many cats that live in this home. It is the only place I have every truly desired to live, besides heaven. This safe haven was made for me. When I want to read, I climb the ladder into the loft and snuggle down under a quilt with a good book and a cat or two. During the winter chill, the giant fireplace on the ground floor and an overstuffed sofa warms me to the bone. Walking in the woods, it is easy to praise God for His creation. Lying in the hammock out underneath the trees, I soak up the random bits of sunshine and listen to the wind in the trees. Birds sing, the many wind chimes ring, and bottles hanging in the branches above klonk with a discordant harmony.

My home seems to retain traces of everybody that has ever lived there. Over the years, through easy and hard times, in times of difficulty and prosperity, this cabin has always been someone's home. It reminds me of people that have passed on and makes me appreciate the time I had with them. Home is the place I can most easily commune with my Creator. My home is where I am able to slow down and think without worries. Though I have never stayed there more than a week and only have visited a handful of times; even though I don't know my aunt and uncle as well as I wish, when I go there I feel as if I belong. Fiona Apple said, "Home is where my habits have a habitat." It is in this place that all of my habits are natural. There my habits and I've found our home.


And there you have it... home, as expressed by my two oldest "global nomads."

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And now, if you'd like to hop into the fray? Lisa Jo invites...

"Paging all writers- it’s free write time! 

This is where a brave and beautiful bunch gather every week to find out what comes out when we all spend five minutes 
writing on the same topic and then sharing ‘em over here.

How to Join...?

...set your timer, clear your head, for five minutes of free writing without worrying about getting it right.


1. Write for 5 minutes flat – no editing, no over thinking, no backtracking.
2. Link back here and invite others to join in.
3. And then absolutely, no ifs, ands or buts about it, you need to visit the person who linked up before you & encourage them in their comments. Seriously. That is, like, the rule. And the fun. And the heart of this community...

OK, are you ready?"

Hope to find your link over at Gypsy Mama's!


28 September 2012

Five Minute Friday ~ Grasp

Joining up with Lisa Jo "...where you are welcome to be a writer.



...where a beautiful crowd spends five minutes all writing on the same topic and then sharing 'em over here.

  1. Write for 5 minutes flat – no editing, no over thinking, no backtracking.
  2. Link back here and invite others to join in. 
  3. And then absolutely, no ifs, ands or buts about it, you need to visit the person who linked up before you & encourage them in their comments. Seriously. That is, like, the rule. And the fun. And the heart of this community..

Oh and Ahem, if you would take pity and turn off comment verification, it would make leaving some love on your post that much easier for folks! 
OK, are you ready? Please give us your best five minutes on...

Grasp…

"Grrrrrrr... aaasssp."

"G... aaasssp."

"Very close. Try again. Grrrrrrr... aaasssp."

"G... arrrrsp."

"You were closer the first time. Look here. You moved the "r" behind the a instead of the front of the a sound. Make sure your a always sounds like the a in cat. I know you're working really hard. Can you try it once again. Grrrrrrr... aaasssp." 


"G...uh... wr... aaasssp."

"That's not exactly right, but it is much better... Good job. Now let's try another r sound..."

I've been having conversations like this a lot lately. My little man struggles with speech and language. We live on the backside of the desert where the nearest speech and language pathologist is hundreds of miles distant. And so, it is up to me to try and help him navigate this path. This really is the only "academic" area of schooling and teaching my kids where I feel totally overwhelmed and totally underprepared. That's not to say that it is always easy! It isn't - not at all. But in all of those other areas, I love and look forward to the challenge and I see big leaps and gains and jumps in progress frequently.


This? I worry that if I can't get it right, he'll always carry around with him this mark of his mama's failure. That people will mock him and his speech behind his back - even if they don't to his face. I can't bear that thought. He's such an open, happy-go-lucky, cheerful and friendly little guy. And we all know that as he moves closer and closer to middle school and junior high that things like funny speech can become more noticeable and more important to peers and strangers than his generous welcoming heart.


One of the things I'm learning in speech and language remediation is how you search and search to find a place or a word where the student makes the desired sound correctly... and you have him mentally and even physically grasp onto that. He practices and tries and finally isolates a particular sound. Next, he'll think of that other word, one where he's got it right, to try and help him correctly pronounce it in other words and situations. He has to concentrate on the position of his tongue, his lips, his teeth, his jaw... even how he is sitting when he tries to enunciate the word... in the hopes that what he's learned and mastered once in another situation will transfer to this new word.


The Lord seems to be using a similar therapeutic strategy with me these days. As I start 

to doubt, 
     to wonder, 
          to fear, 
               to tremble deep within, 
                     to get angry, 
                            to lose all confidence in Him and myself...

(and it seems like I do a lot lately), He silently points out a time when I wasn't like that, when I was trusting and confident in what He was doing, even when I didn't understand, when I was trusting Him and His leading rather than my own ability. He offers that as something for me to grasp tightly so that I can concentrate on the position of my heart, my mind, my spirit and soul, my body... in the hopes that what I've learned and mastered once in another situation will transplant and begin to take root again, here and now.



19 October 2009

Hardcore Homeworking

Brendan has been surprised and a bit overwhelmed at times by the amount of homework he is required to do... but so far, he's been quite the trooper, not only keeping up with his homework, but playing soccer and working a part-time job while traveling to churches every weekend. I think he'd agree that "Life in America" is much busier than life in Niger!

06 October 2008

L'assiduité

Anna came home from school on Friday all excited - she had been selected by her class to receive the "Bon de vertu," to be awarded Monday (i.e. TODAY!) morning. At École Alliance, they select a character trait that they choose to work on as a school - and focus on that trait for the next week... or sometimes two or three weeks. Most recently, their "vertu" has been assiduity (I personally thought it was a pretty good vocabulary word, too. How many people can recall the definition of assiduity to mind readily?) They take the character trait, define it and then discuss concrete examples of how they can demonstrate that particular trait in a classroom setting and then also elsewhere: the playground, in the car on the way to school, at home working on homework, at home helping their parents, out playing with friends, in the market...

So what have our children learned about "assiduity" the past couple of weeks? Well, here are some synonyms: application, attentiveness, constancy, diligence, indefatigability, industriousness, perseverance, persistence, steadiness, studiousness, tirelessness... They've learned that it is sticking with your job (whatever it is), until it is completed and done well. They've also learned that it is devoted attention and loyalty to your family and friends, even when it is hard and might cost you something. What valuable truths for them to learn, especially when at home, we add the Biblical authority in teaching truths such as:

  • Col 3:23-24 "And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ."
  • Prov 17:17 "A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity."
  • Prov 18:24 "A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother."

And frankly, of all of our children, I can't think of a kid who deserves this award more so than Anna. Our other school age children (Brendan, Rebekah, Nadia and Victoria) have all been blessed with the ability to learn easily, quickly, and for the most part, without significant effort. For Anna, math comes that way - but reading and especially the mechanics of writing, are both challenging. The reading skills are progressing with maturity (she is understanding grade level reading in two languages) - but the writing seems to be a continual battle - neatness, legibility and speed... even remembering the mechanics of how to form certain letters. And this is a skill that is often taken for granted in academic settings - particularly in the French system which requires much copying, note taking (even at the 1st and 2nd grade levels), memorization and dictation work. Even in her best/easiest subjects - math and english - she has to contend in this writing battle. While most of our children spend a maximum of one hour on homework a night - it is not unusual for Anna to keep pluggin' away... for 2 or 2.5 hours... and for the most part, without too much complaining or whining about it. She's such a relational person, she loves the one on one time with whoever (Mom, Dad, brother, sister, friend...) is helping/supervising her work.

Apparently her teacher and classmates have noticed this same diligence and attention to her work, as well as her attention and devotion to her friends, because she was their choice to win the award this week. And I just received the telephone report from her daddy - who went to the ceremony to see her receive her award... she was grinning "like a Cheshire cat!" Even that, in and of itself, is a huge step. Last year when she was selected to receive an award, she was so nervous about standing up in front of the whole school that she was on the verge of tears the whole time. I think Anna recognizes what an accomplishment this is for her, that she is pleased to see her progress and I'm praying that all of this will encourage her to continue to progress in her academic abilities, with assiduity.

GOOD JOB, ANNA!
We are ALL so pleased by your hard work!

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"les Devoirs du Soir" by Madame Renée Theobald, done with palette knife.

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