09 August 2010

Multitude Monday - 1000 Gifts: Our "This Year" Home

No... we don't live in a hut or a mud brick house. In fact, most people are surprised by how nice our Niamey homes actually are. Some things we like better (huge bathrooms, lots of space and no carpets to clean)... some things are annoying (buildings not built to square and sloppy tile patterns)... some are downright frustrating (plumbing and electrical parts that are breaking if you look at them the wrong way), but it is home and you learn to just sort of roll with the punches.

Missionary friends who are on furlough this year are graciously subleasing their home to our family... which gives us that time to figure out where we are going to live for the rest of this term. Please excuse the piles of "stuff" still scattered about in these photos... it will probably take me the better part of a month to actually get the stuff back into storage that we want to keep stored for this year and the stuff out of storage and then put away, things that we want available for use here at the house... and since the storage place is 2 km (about a 10 minute drive) away from the house, we are doing it a carload at a time.

We are so thankful for our "this year" home and for our God who provided for us through the graciousness of His servants... our friends!

#310 a kitchen with a sink where I don't have to stand on tippy-toes the whole time I'm doing dishes

#311 working fridge and freezer

#312 a huge oven to bake all that bread I'm gonna be baking this year

#313 a huge living/dining room with lots of windows

#314 a computer/homework/play/dressing room for the kids

#315 which leads into a "dorm" style room with an air conditioner (and that I actually caught an angry-Elsie-Mae-expression... they're pretty rare... for posterity's sake)

#316 HUGE bathrooms... one even has a bathtub and the kids love the "kid sinks" ...we haven't clued the little ones in on the fact that most people call them "bidets" (hee hee)!

#317 sort of, mostly indoor laundry lines - although the laundry still has to come down or get soaked in a hard rain

#318 an incredible screened in terrace/porch where the kiddos can play and that helps, significantly, control the mosquito population (and where we can store the stuff I'm still sorting through)

#319 a portable fan that sits right by the computer to help keep it cool while we are working

#320 my waterbed - even if my guy filled it with hot water - I blame the sweat rolling down his back and the back of his knees as he worked to assemble and then fill it - I guess that caused him to temporarily forgot that we live on the backside of the SAHARA DESERT!!!

#321 my guy who did work hard to get our waterbed ready for use and who puts up with me teasing him about his temporary lapse in sanity

#322 two littlest girls, wearing nuthin' but their underwear 'cause it was really hot that day, sitting together on the table eating carrots that the two biggest girls cleaned and sliced just so we'd have something to snack on around the house

#323 a carport for the car

#324 our faithful little car (the girls call her "Emily") that suffices to transport our gang while the engine on our Landcruiser is being rebuilt... and we saw that Landcruiser out for a test drive Sunday night, so Tim can't wait to call the mechanic Monday morning!

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07 August 2010

Nitty Gritty Details ~ Finally Home!

H.O.M.E.

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{Photo: Daniel Berehulak/Getty Images, Aug 12, 2005, originally published at life.com}

Many images come to mind when we think of Niamey...

schoolkids in uniform

JFK bridge

wide, sandy, often rutted and potholed streets

the barren, forbidding and yet amazingly beautiful desert and her sand dunes

precious friends we've missed so much this last year

people excited to hear Words of Life, Words leading to the relationship that finally satisfies

studio recordings

busy markets

missionary friends and colleagues

donkey carts

radios - E.V.E.R.Y.W.H.E.R.E.

people carrying amazing burdens, physically, emotionally and spiritually...

...people God wants to love through us and through those who partner with us in so many ways.

THIS is our home!

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We landed at the airport around 1 in the morning, woke the kids up, piled off the plane, road the bus a few hundred feet from the foot of the plane to the airport (normally, that seems a little silly, but at 1 AM, I was thankful we didn't have to encourage our exhausted, mostly sleepwalking gang to make that short hike) and began the process of filling out our immigration cards. One of our colleagues, Tim Phillips, had convinced the official to allow him to come back and begin the process... with three of us working, it only took a few minutes. Then, as usual, we were the last ones in line through immigration where they checked our visas, passports and yellow fever vaccination cards. By the time we'd cleared through there, our other colleagues and friends, Chris Marine, Dave Totman and our favorite porter had already gathered our bags, piled them on carts and were in line for customs.

Once we squeezed through the customs line, there were a few more friends waiting to say hello, out to the parking lot to load the vehicles, Tim went searching for our expired residency permits in the appropriate office, we greeted the beggars that live in the airport parking lot, loaded the kids into the cars and headed to the home we'll be subleasing for this year. Traffic patterns have changed some in town, but the familiar scenes... even at 3 AM... were good to see.

Once at the house, the bags, carry-ons and children were rapidly unloaded from the vehicles, we received a quick tour of the house, exchanged information (like where we were eating lunch in about 9 hours), our friends left and we collapsed into bed... Since then, we've been busy visiting, unpacking, and have even had a few meetings, volleyball game, computer/risk games, sleepover, several more visits for a meal, spent the day at the Rec Center pool playing softball and swimming, registered kids for school, enjoyed several good rains... and have already started losing furlough pounds!

It is good to be home!

Hopefully, next week, I'll get pictures of the home where we are living this year posted... now that the piles of clothes and stuff are starting to find homes themselves!

06 August 2010

Nitty Gritty Details 3

As you fly into Africa, at least the parts into which we've flown, the stewardess will come around and hand each person a little card for immigration: "carte de debarcation/embarcation." I guess they do this in the States, too - where are you coming from, what's your nationality, why are you here, what's your local address, passport number, how long do you plan to stay, etc., etc., etc., ...you get the point. Flying into the States, however, you can fill out one card/family. Here in West Africa, we fill out one for every person..., even when you are only "in transit." It isn't difficult but it is time consuming and it also adds time to each airport security checkpoint because each paper needs to be looked at, compared with the corresponding passport and verified, stamped or info from it written down... we almost missed our flight in Casa one time when we started the process over 2 hours before flight time but it took so long we were running down the boarding ramp... and needless to say, I'm not particularly appreciative of the efficiency of the whole process.

When Tim received these cards from the stewardess, he immediately began the process of filling them out. It took him 45 minutes or so and I think he finished right before it was time to land. Then we waited for everyone else to deboard the plane before gathering up our tribe and all the carry-ons. We met up with our friends once we got off the plane. Our layover in Casa is a long one, most of the day, and Royal Air Maroc has agreements with several of the hotels where they bus you to the hotel, give you a room (with a bed and a shower) for a few years, a coupon for a meal in the hotel restaurant, and then bus you back to the airport a few hours before flight time. It is actually one of the things we like about Air Maroc because while it draws out the trip, it helps with the jet lag and it is nice to have that break. In typical African fashion, we all went outside and stood by a bus that we assumed was the one we'd be riding, until another one showed up and we took a ride into Casablanca. The kids enjoy this part, too... it is their first glimpses of Africa, and Morocco, while different, more western and modern... also reminds them of home.

We spent awhile waiting in the lobby while all the "folks in transit" were processed by the hotel personnel and then went up to our rooms... we had 2: one with 2 twin beds and the other with 3 twin beds... and 3 towels between the two rooms. :-) We were delighted that the air conditioners worked - almost froze us out of our rooms! Showers were delightful! We ate lunch at the hotel restaurant and it was there that I decided that while Moroccans love children, Morocco is not necessarily kid friendly. After lunch, Tim took 6 to his room, I took 4 to mine... then Brendan wandered off to find his friends who were a floor below us... and the rest of us slept for a few hours.

When we woke up, it was obvious that Elsie Mae wasn't feeling the greatest, but she wasn't complaining. Then she threw up all over me and my clean cloathes, still insisting that she was just sleepy. Fortunately, Bren had an extra pair of jeans in his carry-on 'cause my capris were "totaled." I did find it humourous that I was wearing my son's jeans. We also scrounged around and found a plastic laundry bag to carry along with us in case she felt sick again (which she did, a few more times); that the little "barf bag" we carried with us was scanned by security several times and we were never questioned regarding the contents.

Once back at the airport, our first order of business was to get my and Mary Michelle's boarding pass - for some reason, a lap child complicates things and boarding passes for the entire trip could not be issued for us. We had to get ours before each flight. Then it was back through another immigration/security check, one where they check those little cards that you fill out for each person (see above), compare it with your passport and your ticket and then send you through another metal detector and your bags through another scan machine. We decided to try the divide and conquer approach this time.

I took 4 kids, passports, cards and tickets to one line and time took the rest of the kids, passports, cards and tickets to another line. We were moving along at about the same pace... until I was next in line and the immigration official decided his shift was over, and he got up and left. So, I walked over to get in line behind Tim and that official pointed me towards another line, who also refused to look at our paperwork, so I walked back up to Tim. The official was quite perturbed that we changed lines and wanted to know why. When I explained that the official left when I was the next one and told me to move to another line, he said, "Well, I told you not to come here." I asked him to please check our paperwork so that I could catch up with my husband who he'd just sent through security (our friends who were watching told me that I was talking with my hands while discussing this with the immigration official... and that crazy barf bag was in my hand the whole time (held very tightly closed, of course :-), although it never dawned on my that I was actually gesturing with the bag in hand). I was also praying that Elsie didn't decide to get sick then and there. When I told him that my husband had gone through right before me, he stops, looks back at Tim walking through the metal detector then to me and asks: "Your husband has 4 children and you have 4 children?"

I replied, "No. My husband and I together have 8 children."

Immigration official: "Then you can't be American. Americans don't have many kids like that. Only Africans and good Moroccans do."

Me: "I am an American. See... it says so in my passport (with a grin because the official is now starting to relax and smile at my blue-eyed girlies.)

Immigration official: "Your passport says you are American, but you can't be a real one. You have too many kids."

Me: "You are right, sir. My passport says I'm an American, but I must be Moroccan in spirit."

...at which point he laughed, called a few of his friends/colleagues over to tell them what I said so they could laugh and greet the kids, stamped our paperwork and had us through the process in about 3 minutes!

We reached our gate with a few minutes to spare - I thought I'd open up the computer and try to download our email or update a Facebook status. Internet was available, but couldn't actually connect unless I paid, which I didn't want to do. Funny thing, though... their system let me download 5 or 6 emails before it kicked me out as not having paid. Our departure was scheduled for gate 25... at the last minute they switched us to gate 24. That wasn't a huge deal. There was no preboarding for families with small children, so we waited in line with everyone for our turn, walked down the jetway to switch to the gate 25 jetway at the same point where the people boarding from gate 25 were switching to the gate 24 jetway. If you understood that... you're doing pretty good. We didn't... just looked at each other and shook our heads, found our seats and started putting carry-ons under seats and in overhead bins.

Once again, our family was seated essentially all together and I had an empty spot next to me. In the several times we've flown internationally, that has never happened to me before. It was wonderful, though, because after the meal, Nadia, Mary Michelle and I were actually able to arrange ourselves so that we could lay down and sleep on that flight. It was wonderful to wake up as we were preparing to descend at the Niamey airport and realize that our trip was essentially behind us!

Check back tomorrow for the conclusion of our trek back to Niger!
Once we boarded the plane, Elsie Mae fell asleep, woke up looking much better and has been going strong ever since!

05 August 2010

Verbose Thursday ~ Nitty Gritty Details 2 (continued)

Our flight from Indiana to JFK in New York went smoothly. I'm terrified of flying, really, so I've always been thankful to have lap kids to distract me during take offs and landings... not sure what I'll do next time we fly because Mary Michelle will probably be too big to ride on my lap. I sat next to Anna - she chattered the whole way. I also listened to Nadia and Victoria right behind me who also kept up a good conversation. One of the few things I do enjoy about flying is looking out the window... New York City and the airport are pretty amazing from way up high.

Once on the ground, we had to gather several pieces of carry-on luggage that we'd had to gate check (it was a smaller sort of plane), set up the strollers (you should have seen Mary Michelle's eyes - this was right after we climbed down off the plane and before we walked back into the building; it was loud and there were airplanes everywhere) and then began our trek to the departures ticket counter where we had to get boarding passes for all of us. God was gentle and gracious to our family - we finally had someone who, for our first time in all of the times we've flown, figured that our family should all be seated together, even if it meant we took up a few rows. Thankfully, our luggage had been checked all the way through to Niamey as we've had to pick everything up in JFK before and switch it for the next flight ourselves. Then it really takes us awhile to get to the next gate!

Once we had our boarding passes, it was back through security (see the previous post) - and although we didn't get special "family" treatment, people were generally kind and helpful and just as we were starting to load up the strollers and head off to find our gate, who should come walking up but our friends-more-like-family... well, at least the younger half of them.

Like the great guys they are, they shouldered a few bags, grabbed a littler's hand and led us down to where their parents were finishing up their dinner. Last year, flying home for furlough, our families had arranged to travel together and unbeknown to most of our gang, we'd scheduled ourselves on the same flight back to Africa. Jonathan, who just loves these guys, asked at least 263 times from the time we started through security in Indy when we'd be seeing them. Tim kept telling him we'd left them at JFK... maybe we'd find them there again... and we did! Actually... they found us... or probably heard Jonathan asking that question the 262nd and 263rd times. :-)

What was really special was being able to start those wonderful hellos on the American side of the ocean, instead of having to wait for our arrival in Niamey. It didn't make the goodbyes hurt less, but did distract us from the sting, kind of like a Dora the Explorer BandAid on one of Elsie Mae's booboos.

The kids sat down and out came the laptops, books and Gameboys as some played and some watched while the parents got to visit for a bit and make those last phone calls or text those last messages before we boarded the plane for Casablanca.

We started boarding around 9 PM, plane was pretty much on time for take-off, ate dinner and then tried to sleep because when we landed in Casablanca, it would be around 10 o'clock in the morning. It is kind of wierd but beautiful flying into the sunrise like that - and Casablanca looks amazing from the air.

To be continued... again... tomorrow!

03 August 2010

Nitty Gritty Details 1... if you're interested in the "Tale of our Trek to Niger"

Well, we are back in the land of sand, sun and shocking amounts of dust...

...and are so glad to be here! The dust shouldn't be shocking me; after all, I was expecting it... perhaps I'd just romanticized it a bit in my mind in the year that I was away... silly me! Our trip went about as well as could be expected... considering how much we took and how many we are traveling... lots of folks have asked about it, so I thought I'd take a few minutes to let you know the nitty gritty!

Traveling back to Niger is a process... a long process that must be done in several steps. Our first step was getting to the airport, Indianapolis, which was no small feat when you've got 26 bags, 16 carry-ons, 8 children and one husband to keep track of. Fortunately, both sets of our parents were able to make the trip with us... and we caught up and passed (first time that has EVER happened) my sis and brother-in-law in a rest area somewhere in northern Indiana. They had started their trek back to California earlier in the day - and all of the cousins got a few giggles out of that.

Once in Indy, we were able to stop by our mission's home office where the staff there had a special time of prayer for our family and our parents were able to put some faces to names of people they sometimes need to contact as they handle things for us on the American side of the ocean. Leaving the office, we headed straight to our hotel to spend a special evening with grandparents and grandkids. Richelle's dad grilled steaks, we "ate out" at the hotel patio and the kids swam in the pool (although the water was cold enough that some spent all their time in the hot tub), showing off for Grandma, Grandpa, Gammie and Gampy. This was the first time ever, since I made my first trip to the mission field, that I spent my last night visiting and relaxing some instead of packing all night long. It is a much better alternative, I'll add!

The next morning, we all enjoyed breakfast, provided by the hotel, and just sat around visiting until it was time to load up the suitcases, check out and drive to the airport. There were a few moments of panic... the lady checking us in was telling us that the computer was telling her we'd have to pay for each individual bag... until she figured out that the problem was due to the wrong airport code. She was great, all of our luggage stayed at or just barely under the 50 lb limit, and she let us send baby clothes as our baby "item" - one less extra bag to pay for!

As we headed over to the departure gate and security, the under 15 squad and their mama were delighted to see that there was a McDonalds in the food court... one last Happy Meal for them, one last Carmel Frappe for me!

Then came the hardest part of all - hugging our parents goodbye... watching them hug and kiss their grandbabies goodbye... we don't ever forget the sacrifice they are making in supporting us wholeheartedly in the ministry to which God has called our family. "We've got the best parents and grandparents in the whole wide world" is the 100% consensus here!

As we headed off down the hall to security, we were relieved and so pleased to find that they had a separate line to expedite families through the process... all laptops (we had 4) out of bags, jackets and pockets emptied, shoes off, strollers folded, bags with electronic equipment emptied into shallow plastic tubs, anything that might set off the metal detector removed from your person... for everything to be scanned. Each one of the kids walked through the metal detector - they think that is hilarious - and this was Mary Michelle's first time to self locomote through the thing. She was a bit reluctant at first.. or perhaps she was waiting for a bigger crowd of security agents to stop and watch her? ...but she finally toddled through to her big sister. Once everyone and everything was on the other side... anything that had appeared questionable in the scan had been rescanned or hand searched... we began the process of loading the bags back up, reshoe-ing all the kids, matching carry-ons with their appropriate porter, opening up the strollers to strap Elsie and the little peanut back in, checking and rechecking to make sure we had everything (particularly children) with which we started out... and then we headed for our gate to wait.

TO BE CONTINUED...check back tomorrow!

02 August 2010

Multitude Monday - 1000 Gifts: Back to the Backside of the Desert

#290 safe travels on a VERY LOOOOOOONG trip (Lansing - Indianapolis - New York - Casablanca - Niamey - our house in Kouara Kano

#291 all 26 pieces of luggage, 16 carry-ons, two strollers, 8 children and 2 parents arrived, seemingly intact. The one duffle bag that tore held it together until it was pulled off the conveyor belt

#292 a lovely place to call home for the next year - with the sheets already on the beds for when we arrived at 3:30 a.m.

#293 the wave of homesickness that passed as we drove past our old home here in Niamey... so many good memories of our time there

#294 meeting up with wonderful friends-more-like-family at the airport in New York - meaning we got to start all those happy hellos on the US side of the ocean

#295 internet - I've already chatted with a few... (and if you see me on-line, don't hesitate to open up a chat box)

#296 for the first time ever having an open space next to me on a plane ride - Mary Michelle and I actually laid down, snuggled and slept on the flight from Casablanca to Niamey

#297 lots of friendly faces, hugs and handshakes when we landed - one of Victoria's friends she's been waiting to see was there at the airport, too

#298 making the immigration official in Morocco laugh when he questioned me about being Americans with so many kids... I told him we carried American passports but must be Moroccan in spirit... he stamped our passports and hurried us through the next check point...

#299 saying hello to many

#300 getting here in time to say hello and goodbye to one friend: she's heading to Tunisia to work for the next several years

#301 a last carmel mocca frappe in the airport in Indy

#302 a first cold bottled Coca Cola here in Niamey

#303 fans

#304 cold showers

#305 listening to the kids as they search for all their favorite street dogs... and as they begin to come up with new names for the new dogs they see

#306 lizard hatches and littlers chasing baby lizards

#307 Jonathan's first play date - already - with one of his friends he has been begging to see

#308 thunder, lightening and lots of rain our first full night

#309 being able to let our parents know we'd arrived safely, and that we already miss them so very, very much

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